Why do you christians keep comparing our sexuality and what we do in the privacy of our bedrooms as murdering, child molesting?

Last time I checked homosexuality has nothing to do with murder or child molesting. There are lgbtq murders and child molesters just as their are straight murders and child molesters. Your sexuality does not make you a murder or a child molester. Also those acts expense others yet my sexuality and my love for my husband has no effect and does no harm to others. So using these acts and saying should we condone this just because its in their nature? Will not hold validity because again these acts cause harm to others but homosexuality causes no harm to others. Me being married to another man does not instantly poof kills people. Does not instantly poof make more child molesting. Does not poof make someones property be stolen. Does not poof cause someone physial ailment. Does not poof cause someone to cry because again me loving another man did not insult someone. it didnt automatically cause an insult to occure that others heard and now they feel sad. It didnt automatically kill people. It did not make items in someones home be stolen. So if your going to try and convince why my sexuality should not be condone use something that is actually compareable and stop doing the stertyope cliche you people always do of things that have no relation to us.